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A wedding long ago.

I’ve had this photo hanging around for quite some time. If I’ve ever scanned it before I’ve lost track. Anyway, it showed up the other day and I scanned it again.

It’s the family portrait at my parents’ wedding. It was Saturday 20th November, 1948 at St Mary Magdalen, East Ham.

Wedding of James E. Gillett and Hilda B. Clare. Sat 20th November 1948

Almost everyone in both immediate families is there. Obviously in the centre we see my father, James Edward with his new wife, and my future mother, Hilda Beatrice Clare. On the left as you look are most of the Gillett side, including three of his brothers and his sister.


On the far left, I think, is father’s eldest brother, William. “Uncle Bill” to me. His full name was William Walter Thomas, something I only discovered when I started to root out all the birth, marriage and death certificates. I find it mildly amusing for reasons we’ll come to.


Next to him, the young lad would be his only son, also William. In this case William Arthur. My cousin “Little Bill.” He’s about 12 years old here, having been born in 1936.


Next, and behind Little Bill is my aunt Joyce: Joyce Evelyn Gillett, the baby of the Gillett family and the only woman. 20 years old here.


The slightly older woman next to Joyce is someone I’m not sure about. Probably she’s the wife of one of the brothers but I’ve got no way of knowing which one she might be. If I had to guess I’d lean towards her being Katharine née Russell, uncle Wally’s wife. Bill’s marriage to his wife (and Little Bill’s mother) Marjorie is known to have been a bit, well, rushed (As is possible to see from Little Bill’s rather early arrival, which is another story) and may well not have lasted.


My grandmother is next in line: Agnes Clara née Ryan. Her husband, my grandfather William Alfred Gillett isn’t in this picture. Records show he died in a hospital in Leyton, east London in May the next year so I’m assuming he was too ill to attend the wedding.


Completing the Gillett side we have, probably, my uncles Wally, (Walter Arthur) and Tommy (Thomas Albert) You see, perhaps, why I’m slightly amused. I had an uncle William Walter Thomas, and an uncle Walter, and an uncle Thomas. Seems weird to me.


Missing from this line up is my last uncle John Alfred Gillett. I think I’ve been given a reason for his absence but just now I can’t remember.

You might have noticed that there are three generations of Williams mentioned there. (Karen delights in calling them all the “Willie Gillies”) It wasn’t uncommon in the past for an eldest son to be named for the father. And in fact it goes back further than that. Grandfather William was the eldest son of a William Gillett CRANNAGE (the circumstances of the name change are not clear) and HIS father was supposedly also a William. I say supposedly because while he was named as the father on the birth certificate there’s no evidence he ever had anything to do with his son and could well have just been a name plucked out at random to go on the paperwork. Still, he gave his name. Young Bill, though, broke with tradition and when he married and had a son fifteen years later he named him Andrew.

Getting back to the photo. Behind and to the left of my mother is her brother Arthur Edward Clare (Uncle Ted to me) and next to him at the back, her youngest brother Ron: Ronald George. In the front again we have the father and mother of the bride: Arthur George Clare and Rhoda Jane née Bailey. Arthur was Rhoda’s second husband and the father of Hilda, Ted and Ron. Her previous husband, Henry Simmons had died in 1919 in the Spanish ‘flu epidemic leaving her with the final three siblings we see here. Rhoda Florence, known as Floss, William George and finally Henry John “Jack” Simmons.

The wedding took place during a gap in James’ Merchant Navy service. He’d signed on as a carpenter’s mate with the MV Arawa of New Zealand in 1942. He then spent most of WW II also as a carpenter’s mate on MV Rangitiki before transferring to MV Pipiriki. He was paid off from her in May 1948 and came home. I don’t know what he did with himself, apart from getting married, for the next six months, but three weeks after the wedding he signed on with , MV Hertford as ship’s carpenter for what looks to have been her maiden voyage. I have no details of where they went, but they were away for six months. He then did one more voyage lasting until December 1949 before leaving the sea for good.

Family Photo

At the funeral of my Auntie June ( neé Tidd) a few months ago her sons, Gary and Jamie, produced a couple of albums of old photos. Mostly they date from the early 1950s. I took charge of one of them and I’ve been slowly scanning the pictures for posterity. Not surprisingly, they mostly feature June, her husband Ron Clare (who passed in 2002) and their friends. Usually on holiday.


But there’s one that sets itself apart. It’s Ron and June with his parents (my grandparents) and ALL the siblings and spouses. I don’t think I’ve ever seen them all together before. The scribbled note on the back says it was taken in 1953 or ’54. I suspect it was at their house in Hatherly Gardens in East Ham.

All the family

Front and centre: my maternal grandmother, Rhoda Jane Clare (neé Bailey) Born in London in 1891 and worked as a domestic servant. In 1912 she married a Henry George Simmons and had three children. Henry John known as Jack (1913) Back row, second left. Rhoda Florence–Floss–(1916) Back row, centre and William George, (1918) Front row on the right as you view it.

In 1919, Henry George was carried off by the Spanish ‘flu epidemic. Must have been hard for Nanny Rhoda, but luckily an old friend of Henry’s, Arthur George Clare, seen next to Rhoda on the left, stepped in to help and in May 1922 they married. In December that year, my mother, Hilda Beatrice Clare, far left, was born. Think about that. Take all the time you need.

Later on, they had Arthur Edward (1925) back row, second right, and Ronald George (1931) on the right at the back. Completing the family group we have my dad, Hilda’s husband, James Edward directly behind her, half hidden, and June Iris Tidd, Ron’s wife, in front of him on the right.

I’m absolutely fascinated by this picture. As I said, I’ve never seen all of them together before, and I don’t think I’ve ever seen a picture of grandfather Arthur at all. And as he died in 1959, I really remember very little about him.

They’re all gone now, as you might imagine. June was the last living member of her generation of the family. But we do have these and many other photos, and I hope they keep on emerging.

The long hard life of Elizabeth Philips

About twenty five years ago–long before Who Do You Think You Are– I started looking into my family history, just out of curiosity.

Back then, there was no internet, no Ancestry, no electronic indices and the search procedure was rather tedious so it took me quite a while to track down very much at all.

Over the years, though, I built up a patchy but reasonably accurate (I hope) picture of my ascending family tree.

Mostly it’s fairly mundane. The Gilletts and the Clares (my mother’s family)  were mostly “ag labs”–agricultural labourers–in the nineteenth century and even when they migrated to the towns and cities in the late nineteenth and early Twentieth centuries they remained mostly unskilled.

I was, though, oddly fascinated by one particular ancestor and her life.  It took a while to put it together. In fact, I ground to a halt on a bit of a problem and stopped looking for quite some time until about ten years ago  I got to talking to Karen about it and she managed to break the logjam.

But this isn’t the story of how we unearthed it; this the the story we unearthed.

Her name was Elizabeth Philips and she is one of my Great Great Great Grandmothers.

Elizabeth Philips was born to Anne (born Trehearne) and William Philips in Upton on Severn in Worcestershire in 1804, they having married in August the previous year. She was baptised there on the 22nd of July and that’s really all I know about that. There’s some information regarding William and Anne in later life, including a couple more children (Hannah, 1806 and Joseph, 1815) but little else.

Elizabeth didn’t trouble any other official records that I know of until 1835 when she had her second child, Ann, baptised at Saint Martin’s in the city of Worcester.  I have no way at the moment of knowing how she came to leave Upton on Severn to the city.  I know Ann was at least her second child because she  also recorded an older brother, James, in the census of 1841 but I haven’t turned up evidence of his birth or baptism–which would have been sometime around 1829 or 1830. She didn’t mention a father for Ann and it wasn’t until the 11th of December 1838 that she married. Her husband was Edwin Gillett, a plumber and glazier originally from farming stock in Gloucestershire–perhaps tenant farmers, perhaps ag-labs; I haven’t been able to find out.

Was Edwin Ann’s father? I have no idea. He might have been, but there’s no evidence of it. He would have been eighteen or so at the time. He was born to a Charles and Mary Gillett,  in a small Gloucestershire village called Temple Guiting in 1813.

Edwin and Elizabeth did definitely have one child, John, born in October 1839, but he only lived for six months before being carried off by Tuberculosis in the spring of 1840. Edwin, sadly, had gone before, also succumbing to TB in December of 1839.

And so in the first national census, taken in April of 1841, we find Elizabeth, James and Ann living in Water Course Alley in central Worcester.  It seems likely that it was a bit of a slum. My first thought was that, from the name, it was canalside, but  a more or less contemporary map shows   houses on the alley marked as “City Ditch (site of)” Presumably the ditch was built over. . Water Course alley isn’t there  any more of course. It’s now a municipal car park between Queen Street (which does survive, at least in name, from 1841) and the A34, constructed on the course of Silver Street.Watercourse

It must have been a hard life for Elizabeth, what we’d now call a lone parent, faced with bringing up two children once Edwin died. Ann was quite young, only about 6 and James was 12. He was in fact working, as a “twine spinner” which is part of the process of ropemaking but at the age of 12 he couldn’t have been getting paid very much.

Elizabeth  was a “gloveress” which is interesting in itself. According to Amanda Wilkinson, a historian specialising in 19th century female work, in Worcester it was very often a cover for prostitution.

https://19thcenturyhistorian.wordpress.com/2014/02/14/g-is-for-gloveress/

Glove making was skilled and delicate work, but appallingly badly paid and so many gloveresses supplemented their income on the streets. I can’t help wondering if that’s how Elizabeth found herself with two fatherless children by the age of 30.

Incidentally, fans of Terry Pratchett may be noting the similarity to the profession of “seamstress” in Ankh-Morpork. I’m sure it’s not an accident. Sir Terry was very well versed in social history and must have been aware of the realities facing single women in poverty.

She wasn’t single for all that long. In early 1843 she married one Henry Lewis, a widower and (according to the census) neighbour in Water Course Alley. Henry was a cordwainer, or shoemaker, also a highly skilled trade.  Henry and Elizabeth then fade from official records for ten years.  I’ve never managed to find them in the census for 1851 but in 1853 Henry died at the age of 39 (He was probably born  in 1813 although there’s no definite  record I can find) The cause of death was recorded as a “fit of apoplexy brought on by intoxication,” which is alarming,  His place of death was a street called Lowesmoor, only a short distance from Watercourse Alley. Elizabeth, James and Ann were on their own again.

Until  May 1855,  when Ann had a child of her own. And here it gets just a little murky. Ann’s child was registered as William Gillett CRANNAGE. She gave the little boy “Gillett “ as a given name after her mother’s first husband. Does that suggest that Edwin was  in fact her natural father?

William’s father was named as a William Crannage, a “stoker at the gas works” but nowhere is there any record of a marriage between them. Six years later in the census of 1861 young William was living with his mother,  grandmother and uncle James all under the name of Lewis in Pheasant St, again, very near Watercourse Alley. Of William Crannage there is no sign.  There are a handful of candidates appearing in various census records but none  I can definitely pin down as the father,  the Elizabeth was working then as a laundress–possibly a little too old to carry on as a “gloveress”–as was Ann, and James had become a boatman.

In 1862, at the end of August, Ann (as Ann Gillett) married a Seria Gunnell and then with somewhat indecent haste, had a child in early 1863. Make of that what you will. It seems she left Elizabeth’s home but didn’t take William with her, as the 1871 census shows just Elizabeth and William living together: Elizabeth as Elizabeth Lewis, widow and laundress,  and William as William C. Gillett, a labourer.  There is no mention of James; I’ve never found any definite trace of him since. Ann, meanwhile had given Seria three more children.

Elizabeth was quite old by then  and at some point in the next six years she went into the workhouse where she died of “senile decay”–effectively old age–on the 2nd of May 1877. She would have been 73, not a bad age for a working class woman in Victorian England I think. I’d really like one day to have a sight of whatever records of the workhouse survive.

William Gillett/Crannage/Lewis–take your pick; he did–married a local girl, Jane Stevens, in 1878 and had eleven children, one of whom, William Alfred,  was my grandfather. The eldest child was a girl, whom they named Elizabeth Ann. I find it interesting that William honoured his grandmother first.

There is one odd fact. William married Jane under the name of Crannage, that was what was originally on the marriage certificate and in the register,  but all the children were registered as Gilletts and in 1921 their marriage certificate was formally amended to show that the then William Gillett was the William Crannage who had married 43 years previously. Karen has suggested that this was to validate an entitlement to a pension that was going to kick in at the age of seventy.

It leaves me wondering, though. It seems that by strict linear paternity, I’m not really a Gillett at all, but possibly a Crannage. There’s no guarantee that Edwin was even my genetic three-greats grandfather through Elizabeth. Who, in fact, do I think I am?

But this isn’t my story. It’s the long and hard life of Elizabeth Philips. She had three children by at least two different fathers, both of whom she outlived,  and brought up an abandoned grandchild as her own. She was a survivor and in a curious  way, I’m kind of proud of her.